Regret to enter marriage? Liu Qiu s wife s wife "There are 14 common sins after marriage". How many of them have you won?

As the price of goods and house prices increase, the pressure on life increases, and more and more people are unmarried in Taiwan. Some netizens think it is painful to be misled by their parents if they don’t get married. In this regard, lawyer Lu Qiu dismissed the "14 serious crimes that are easily placed after marriage" and said that the only crime is not to marry, but there are so many crimes you may be placed after marriage!

The 14 serious sins that were placed after marriage

Is marriage a tomb of love or a paradise? Ji Qiuyun said that if you don’t get married, the only crime is not to get married, but if you get married, the number of crimes that will be filed in the future may be endless. After getting married, a girl has a new identity as a "wife and daughter-in-law" and what crimes will she be charged with? Let’s have a look together?

{9 There is only one child, but he didn’t have a second child. With the second child, he didn’t have a third child. What should we do if our family is few? It is a crime to give birth to a girl and not give it to her. It is only a boy, or the daughter is the most concerned. Why is Zigong so useless?

Sincere 3, 4: Yes/Whether you have to serve your husband well, you are guilty of

The husband is good at catching up and likes to run out, which means that the husband is not warm at home, which is a crime. My husband is lustful and likes to run out, which means that his wife is not warm to him, and of course it is still his wife’s problem. He served his husband well, so he didn't want to go out to pay every day, and indulging in the gentle country is a crime. He did not serve his husband well, which led to his affair and his wife's problem.

State 5 and 6: The husband's career is successful/failed, and they are all guilty.

The husband's career is successful, which means that the husband is very hard every day, and the wife will only enjoy the fruits of her. The money is still spent on her husband, but it is the vase at home, which is a crime. My husband's failure in his career means that his face and figure are not good for his husband, and he has no best support and support.

State 7 and 8: If you have become frivolous and beautiful in appearance, you will be guilty of becoming fat after marriage, and you don’t know how to take care of yourself. It’s hard to blame your husband for having an affair. This is a crime. Spending money to protect yourself after marriage and keeping yourself in a good state, but it is too good to not consider your husband's mood at all. This is still a crime. If you are too thin and have no luck, it is a problem. If you are too fat, your husband will be eaten up by you.

State of Sin 9 and 10: Filial piety/unfilial in-laws are all guilty

Filial piety in-laws must not have any idea. It is a crime to want to claim their property. Unfilial parents-in-law are simply abusing their daughter-in-law. They dare to talk to them and directly kill 18 layers. This is not a crime, this is death. Filial piety to his own father and mother is to steal resources from her in-laws' house and use them for their family. She is a thief who is not aware of the family, of course it is a crime. If you don’t care about your own father and have no conscience, your brothers and sisters will kill you. This is not a crime, this is a problem that you should not live. It is a crime to be a relative with a husband, such as being not good at getting along with his sister-in-law or being too cold (yes! It is not okay not to interact with him!), and not considering the difficulty of standing up for her husband is a crime. But you are so kind to your relatives. You are just a aunt and a wife who talks about the gossip at home all day long. If you pretend to be wise in March, you will also have to add a crime.

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Sincere 11: It is very good at spending money, and guilt

is very good at spending money, especially when spending the money of my husband, which is a crime. Who can spend his money every day with such time, and do not worry about how hard it is to work outside! It doesn't work if it's spent on children! Who knows if you do this? I will give you 5,000 yuan a month, just to make you do a spa every day, have afternoon tea, go shopping and buy high-quality products? Why can’t the daily dietary fee of a family of four be controlled below 300 yuan? Will you buy vegetables? My mother raised us on my father’s salary back then. Can you learn something?

Sincere 12: If you don't spend money, if you don't spend money, you're also a crime. Why do you save so much every day? I don’t have the cold air when I go home, and I only eat three dishes and one soup. Why did my mother’s red bag only cost 600 yuan during the Chinese New Year? Children should go after replenishing, otherwise what if they are as stupid as you? What about money? Wait, you have the nerve to say, I will give you 5,000 yuan a month, isn’t it enough? If you don’t want to go back to your parents’ house to ask for money? Other people's wives will come back with money to sponsor their husbands to start a business. What have you done?

Sincere 13: Not doing housework, being guilty

Not doing housework is of course a crime. I have nothing to do at home every day, but how tired will I be to take two children, do some food, wash a few clothes, and organize some at home? Besides, when I got home, I helped me wash dishes and cheat my children. The family was not done well, and the house was messy, the toys were not packed, the clothes were not folded, and I wanted them. You said you were very tired and didn’t give me the reason. This is a reason to divorce, right?

Sincere 14: When you go out to work, you have to be a full-time mother, just don't do anything to produce and don't pay any money to your family. So, it’s okay to go out to work, right? Then he is still guilty. When he goes out to work, he just doesn’t care about his family or children. Do he have to pay so much money? The child has only grown once, and for such a little money, he will lose his relationship with the child. What if the child goes astray in the future? When getting married, you have to get off work early to pick up your children, but you don’t care about the company and work overtime to fight for the company. If your children are picked up by your parents-in-law, you don’t care about your family.

After reading the above "The 14 Deadly Sins Issued After Marriage", how many of them have you been defeated? As a wife or daughter-in-law, are you also worried? Ji Qiuqiu joked: Keeping a single body, you will only be misunderstood and not married; but after marriage, you may be so guilty of being talked about until Mid-Autumn Festival.. So don't blame them for those who want to marry you, or maybe they just want you to know how happy a single body is~

6 things you should think about before getting married

Before getting married, there are indeed many things that need to be thoughtful about. Marriage is an important decision that involves many real and emotional issues. Here are six things to consider before marriage:

1. Expectations and reality of marriage: Marriage is not a romantic eternity, and friction and conflicts in daily life are inevitable. Understand each other's expectations for marriage and ensure that both parties have real understanding and consistent expectations for their future lives.

2. Whether economic problems are planned: Financial problems are a major challenge in marriage. Discuss and develop financial plans, including income, expenditure, savings and investments. Make sure that both parties agree on the money problem and avoid future conflicts caused by economic problems.

3. Family roles and responsibilities: confirm each other's roles and division of responsibilities in the family, including family, parenting, responsibility to both parents, etc. It is clear that these problems can avoid many conflicts after marriage.

4. How to communicate and resolve conflicts: it is difficult to encounter conflicts and differences in marriage. Learn effective communication skills and find solutions to conflicts, so as to ensure that both parties can find common sense in conflicts and solve problems together.

5. Whether to have children and related questions: Conversations such as whether to have children, when to have children, and how to educate children need to be reached in advance. These questions involve long-term planning of the family and have a profound impact.

6. Balance between marriage and personal life: maintain personal space and interest, and find balance in marriage. Marriage should not completely replace individual life, and everyone needs to have their own time and space.

Marriage is a process that requires the joint efforts of both parties. It is not only romantic and sweet, but more about understanding, tolerance and fit. Before entering marriage, you must carefully consider these problems and ensure that you and your partner are mentally prepared to meet the challenges of marriage life so that you will not miss the marriage tomb, but will create a paradise after marriage!