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Women must get married and have children, so that they won’t be left unfinished when they are old?No matter how the times change, there are still many people who think about tradition. They believe that women have to marry and have children to have a complete life! Do you often hear "care" in your life? "You are very young, please find someone who is suitable to marry me!", "It's good to have XXX's son. Do you want to introduce it?", "You are very old, don't have too high vision. You're so careful that no one wants it.", "It's better for a woman to marry and have children", "If you don't marry and have children, no one will help you when you are old." These seemingly concerned emotional blackmail words are inadvertently reminding you that "you have to marry and have children and have a good life"; some people even use "leftover women" to call single women who are still unmarried by the age of 30.
Compared with traditional conservative concepts, modern people's views on marriage are different from those in the past, and the proportion of late marriage or non-marriage increases. Most individual women believe that even one person can live well, and do not have to change their career protection through marriage. Through their own efforts, they can maintain financial stability. Because there is no need to reduce marriage and children, they can enjoy a free and single life.
A 38-year-old single daughter was urged by her mother to get married and have children as soon as possible, otherwise she would be old and no one would have raised her. The daughter replied, "You can live a good life alone. It's great to rely on yourself when you are old. Why do you have to rely on others to raise yourself? At worst, you can save money to go to a senior nursing home." In response, she also asked on the Internet in confusion, "Does women have to get married and have children?" The post was released, which attracted a large number of netizens to respond, expressing their opinions on getting married and having children.
Support? Oppose? It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on othersSome netizens have expressed their happiness, and they don’t have to get married and have children. "Everyone has his own way of life. As long as he lives happily and wonderfully, it is not that important whether he has marriage or not." "My mother also said that he wants to get married, but it may not necessarily be the path of marriage. People live to be happy! Marriage is happiness, divorce is happiness, and one person is happiness! Everyone has different paths to happiness, so only you can decide how to make yourself happy." "With a girl, you may not be able to support yourself when you are old? It's better to live happily by yourself. Why bother with so many problems?" "Come to the world It's too hard, no matter whether I get married or not, if I was born late, I won't marry," "Why do you want to torture yourself?", "You can arrange your life properly, and you can have a wonderful life alone", "Life is what you have been through, it depends on your personal wishes!", "Don't get married for the sake of getting married. Marriage life is really not the beauty you imagined. If you can go back, you will definitely not choose marriage", "Just think it through clearly, know how to adapt to your future life arrangements and be responsible for yourself", "The world is difficult, and living freedom is the most important thing."
Networkers who are interested in tradition believe that women must continue their family lineage, so that only when they are old can someone take care of them. "If you have the means to be responsible for marriage or having children in your life, it's nothing to say, but if you have the responsibility to inherit the family line, it's different, otherwise the human race will be destined", "I have many young ideas when I am old, and I will be different when I am not married or have children, and I will realize that I am serious when I am old", "There are three kinds of unfilial piety. There are great things in the future. You must have descendants." "No matter whether men and women are married or not born, they will have nothing to do after the day. Will they be eaten by dogs after a hundred years?", "If you don't get married or have no companion, it seems that you are relaxed from it." It’s good that you will be safe all your life! One day you encounter an accident or get seriously ill and don’t have a half-person person. No matter how much money you have, it’s useless? ", "Don’t have children... What should you do if you are old and dementia? What should you do if you are critically ill and no one signs?", "Excellent schooling, if you are a person with good talent and appearance, find a very good child in life. If you have good quality of life, give birth to one, no matter whether you are a man or a woman."
Some netizens also said that the times are different. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. You can grow old by having money. "My daughter has a good idea. As long as she has good economic ability, she will not be afraid of getting old." "All children are born are a child who is a child. I'm afraid there are problems with going to the nursing home", "I didn't say that I must get married, but now you have to save enough money to raise my parents", "A person is also good, but you have to have money, otherwise you have to get along with some irrelevant products after marriage, which is super tiring and tiring", "You don't have to get married, but you must have money and good health.", "You are a truly wise person every day. Is it really good to get married? Will having children really grow old? People are never as good as God's calculations, and the times are different!", "The times are different, and children will never raise you."
Do women have to marry and have children? In modern society, women already have more rights and choices, including whether to marry and have children. We should respect everyone's choices rather than enhancing a lifestyle to others.
1. Happiness is not just one way: everyone has different values and lifestyles, and marriage and childbirth are not necessarily the happiness that everyone must pursue. Some people may find their happiness through other ways.
2. Women should have their own choice: everyone has the right to decide their own life path, including whether to marry and have children. Women should be allowed to make their choices freely without social pressure.
3. Marriage and childbirth are not something that everyone can do: some women may not be able to marry and have children due to health, financial or other factors. This pressure will only make these women feel even more uneasy.
4. Single body does not mean loneliness: Single body does not necessarily mean that a person is always lonely. People can establish deep international relations and life circles, as well as engage in various interests and activities.
5.Childness is not suitable for everyone: everyone's physical and psychological state is different, and childbirth may cause adverse effects on some people. This pressure will only make these women feel even more uneasy.
6. Lyrics about "leftover women": Using words like "leftover women" will make women feel inferior and disrespectful. We should respect everyone's choices, regardless of whether they choose to marry and have children.
In short, women should have the right to decide their lives and should not be affected by the constraints of traditional concepts and stereotypes. Let women be free to choose their own life path, whether they pursue career or family, or both. We need to embrace diversity and inclusion so that everyone can find happiness and satisfaction in their lives.