A recent article on Dcard has caused a heated discussion on the term "mother". The original PO mentioned that the mother refers to a woman whose child has entered kindergarten or even elementary school, and who has not returned to the job site, has no production ability to spend her husband's money at home, like a parasitic worm. As a divorce lawyer, she was very unconventional.
Lawyer Lu Qiuyuan responded to this article a few days ago with the same identity and viewpoint as a lawyer. He suggested that everyone watch the Korean movie "Kim Ji-young Born in 1982" before getting married.
{9The heroine Kim Ji-young is an ordinary mother. She married the man she loves and gave up many dreams for this. She does housework every day, and occasionally drinks a cup of coffee and is pointed at by the neighbors. She thinks that she "drinking coffee with her husband's money and waving it freely, and having a good life", which is what she calls "mother".
Jun Qiu said that based on his practical experience, in Taiwan's social structure, or in the system of Asia, marriage is a "stable and unpaid" thing for women.
In practical experience, mothers are really rarely seenWhy? He analyzed that in this social structure, women should have money, but not too much; they should have the ability, but they must be used to help their husbands; they must have a facial, but they cannot spend their husbands money for lasers. The point is that other people's wives are more beautiful.
Women should be tolerant of their mother-in-law. A filial mother-in-law is the first priority. A filial mother can only be occasionally; she should be very good at doing housework, but it is best to make money; and you should not forget that you should be a good wife first, and you should not lose your femininity, otherwise don’t blame your husband for having an affair.
When many things are pushed to extreme values, they will be like the "mother" mentioned by the lawyer. Ji Qiuyun said: "Have you ever used the money paid by my husband to be ruthless and I am not responsible for it? Of course there are. But in Taiwan society, I can use these many cases of asking for help from me on my face, talking to me at the office, and seeking justice in the court to guarantee it. There are actually too few people like this."
How much money do I get with my husband? How did the child grow up? Do you rely on sunlight, air and water? Using this money, can you ask an employee who has the ability to be a nanny, a nurse, a pick-up and drop-off employee, a playmate, a tutor, a chef, a home swiper, a laundry shop employee, etc.? At night, he had to serve the old man, because to grasp the man's heart, he had to grasp the man's head first. If he didn't give him any words, he would go outside to find a woman with impoliteness.
In fact, women who can really have time and money to go to department stores, have afternoon tea, and do laser skin care are usually the husband who is extremely rich or spends the money they earn. In fact, few women can take their husbands to slack off, and then they don’t have to do anything. This is the actual experience discussion of Lu Qiu.
Finally, Lu Qiu is far away from women, either don’t get married or go to work, and don’t have those mothers who “what I can do without this family” who are watching Shiyin’s situation. Why do you have to work so hard? You have to be criticized by your partner for always asking for money. This article really makes women all over the world feel resentful! Let’s take a look at the full text of Ji Qiuyuan.