People often see such videos on some social platforms. Before raising a pet, their family obstructed them in every way, but after secretly taking the pet home, their family's attitude towards it changed 180 degrees and they liked it very much. To sum up in one sentence: Nothing can escape the law of true fragrance!
But is this really the case? If you take the pet home without the consent of your family, the final result will be a great reunion? I think online videos are just some individual cases. Not everyone has such reasonable families, because everyone has their own bottom line that is difficult to touch.
Buy a cat and give it to your husband as a holiday gift. The husband was furious
On Christmas Eve 6 years ago, every household was filled with a happy atmosphere, but the shoveler unexpectedly received a call from a friend, a woman who had just married. She thought she was here to send blessings, but unexpectedly, there was an anxious and slightly crying voice on the other end of the phone.
"Can you come to my house now? I have a cat, a purebred Singaporean cat. I want to ask you to take care of it for the time being. If it is inconvenient for you, I can send it there."
The cat man fell from the sky made the shoveler a little confused. He roughly learned about the situation from his friend's phone call.
Before marriage, the female friend mentioned her husband the idea of raising a cat, and her husband agreed. The friend wanted to give her husband a surprise this Christmas and bought a kitten from a pet store.
After my husband came back from get off work in the evening, he saw the cat at home. He did not show the happiness he deserved, but instead began to lose his temper and asked his friend to send the cat back to the pet store.
The friend quickly explained that the pet store has been closed long ago, can it be sent back tomorrow? Unexpectedly, her husband made a harsh statement: "If you can't send this cat away now, I'll throw it away with you!"
The friend knew his husband very well and knew that he was a person who would do what he said. If he didn't do what he said, he would definitely throw the cat out. She knew that the shoveler had a cat at home, so she asked him for help.
The shoveler did have two cats at home. He agreed to his friend's request without hesitation. Considering that she was a woman, it would be inconvenient to come out in the middle of the night, the shoveler decided to drive to his friend's house to pick up the cat.
It was a very cute Singapore cat with big and round eyes, looking like I was pitiful. The little guy was stupid and had no idea that he almost turned into a stray cat.
The few days after being taken home by the shoveler, this kitten became a "climbing sperm". He always liked to follow the shoveler and lie in his arms and act coquettishly.
The shoveler was really reluctant to give it to someone, and after the permission of his friend, he decided to adopt this cat.
This year, this cat is already 6 years old. The couple with disagreeable values finally ended in divorce shortly after the "cat-losing incident".
In this matter, who is right and who is wrong? Maybe everyone thinks that the husband has a greater responsibility. The wife buys cats as a gift out of kindness. He has promised his wife that he can raise a cat before, but the husband's reaction is too extreme.
I also think that husbands have greater responsibilities, but the wife is not at all at fault. After all, cats do not live with humans like other gifts. The wife does not realize that cats may be a taboo for husbands. If she can discuss with her husband in advance before buying a cat, maybe the result will not be like this.
In real life, there are indeed many people who buy pets as gifts. You think pets can bring endless joy to the other party, but you don’t know that your behavior adds unnecessary responsibilities to the other party. Not everyone is suitable for keeping pets.
Some people are born to dislike cats and dogs. It’s not that they are cold-blooded, but that everyone has different preferences.
Pets are never suitable as gifts.